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Both melodramatic and hilarious – this lady knows how to tug at your heartstrings and at the same time, tickle your funny bone. Equipped with a spirit to learn and a passion to succeed, she is steadfast to reach her aspirations as she valiantly endures all intricacies with a delightful smile.

Saturday, April 14, 2012

I actually like people who would exert an effort to be there for you.

Who doesn't right?

People would talk to you and all. But not everyone would be willing to make you feel important. I never wanted to be treated like a queen. However, it feels good if someone would be willing to give you time and effort. It somehow makes you feel that you have a worth in this world.

It is not my dream to be the girl whom you would give everything. But I would certainly appreciate it if one day there would be a person who would try to do his best to make me happy. He may not give me everything I wanted. Knowing that he's exerting his best effort to make me feel that I am special and worthy of his attention would be enough for me to feel like I am the luckiest person in the world.

Thursday, April 12, 2012

We are lucky that we have friends who stay true to us 'til the end of time.

Don't you love it when there's a person who cares for you more than what you have expected? It's a nice feeling knowing that there is a person around you who:

  • Notices you when you are not okay because he/she knows you that much
  • Brings you food 'cos you haven't taken your lunch
  • Spends a lot of time with you despite his/her busy schedule
  • Helps you with a lot of things
  • Scolds you for all the wrong things
  • Gets mad at you but won't leave you
  • Worries when you are acting differently
  • Accepts your flaws
  • Sticks with you despite your worst attitude
  • Stay by your side no matter what

Let us admit the fact that our friends bring spice into our lives. They are the ones whom we do stupid things with without looking stupid at all. Treasure them 'cos not everyone is given a chance to find a true friend.

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

We would often look forward for sweet actions and messages which make our hearts melt.

In reality, all those sweet thoughts and efforts are nothing if the person giving it to you does not have an impact in your life at all. Yeah, it could put a smile on your face. However, its effect won’t last that long.

Let us face reality. Others might find certain things cheesy enough to make a pinch in your heart. However, it would only affect you and make your whole day if it is from someone special, someone who doesn’t even need to do much to make you smile.

Isn’t it funny that you keep on having list of things which you wish someone would do for you yet those are nothing if the person exerting effort in fulfilling that list isn’t special enough? Sometimes, you are just waiting for that one person who will totally trash out your list of things ‘cos simply having that person by your side already makes you perfectly happy.

Monday, April 9, 2012

Whatever makes you feel bad, leave it. Whatever makes you smile, keep it.

That's one quote that I have seen in the internet. It seems easy to understand right? But what if that one thing makes you feel bad and smile at the same time? What are you going to do?

It is really hard to choose especially when that one thing makes you smile more than anything else. Yeah, it gives you pain most of the time. But you have to admit that the happiness that it gives you encompasses all the sadness that you have felt.

Your mind could be certain on what to do but your heart keeps on confusing you. Your heart seems to prevent you from following your mind. There's this force which keeps on pushing and pulling you back and forth which makes you feel confused even more.

It is really hard to make a choice especially if you know that none of the choices would make you happy at all. You keep on thinking but you end up with nothing.
It is possible that you are the one who decided to leave yet you are the one who keeps on missing things so much. It’s not that the feelings are gone. It’s just that you have to do the right thing because there seems to be no future for the both of you anymore. The issues are just piling up as you stay longer. Sometimes, love is not enough for two people to continue what they have. Waking up everyday without having the things the both of you used to do is really hard to go through. However, you have to face reality. No matter how much the two of you invested in whatever kind of relationship that you have, there is a need to let go.

Friday, April 6, 2012

I am the type of person who is impatient when it comes to texting.

I am a very demanding person. I hate it when a person takes more than three minutes to reply especially when he is important to me. I am just used to getting replies instantly. Replying longer than usual makes me think that the person is not prioritizing me. I know it is too much but that defines who I am.

I obligate the person to inform me when he would be busy doing things so that I won’t wait. There are a lot of times that I’d flood the person just because he was not able to respond in a span of five minutes.

I seem crazy right? It’s hard for me to change this attitude eventhough I know that I have to.